Abstract

This paper explores how we relate to others through a reading of the specular register. It brings together two contrasting scenes: the rivalry between Eteocles and Polynices, which leads to mutual destruction, and the relationship between Judith and Hamnet, where closeness takes the form of tenderness and love. From this contrast, different possible outcomes of the specular are considered, in dialogue with Lacan’s notion of erotico-aggressive libido. The paper also reflects on contemporary forms of social bonding shaped by opposition, which make it difficult to accommodate difference and tend to intensify conflict. In this context, the idea of an “algorithmic tyranny” is introduced, referring to a dynamic that organizes experience between narcissistic confirmation and indignation. Finally, it raises the question of whether it is possible to relate to others beyond rivalry, opening the way to encounters that can expand the power to exist.

Key words: specular | otherness | social bond | algorithm